For Mandy Aftel and Carrie Meredith - Update - see below. The stalker has a stooge. Harsh words, but those who try to injure someone, and then keep poking that injured party, should be ready if the injured party - me - has had enough and outs them.
|Click to view - 433 visits from someone who tried to harm my businesses constitutes stalking.|
The blogger who was groomed by Aftel to do her bidding, and who instigated a boycott against the Guild (can you imagine such an act from someone who is on the Fragrance Foundation's Indie Committee?!) is checking my blog for Aftel, as Aftel did stop obsessively clicking here after the outing the other day. These folks need to disappear from my life. Please, just go away. The blog stat image of the stooge blogger is included, below.
|Carrie Meredith of Eyeliner on a Cat who started the boycott against the Guild - because the Guild put a member on suspension for violating the Guild code. What business is that of hers?|
Like most business owners, I check my stats for trends and information about who visits my webpages. I have my perfumerie, the Guild, and my perfume classes pages. Someone who is fanatically obsessed with me, and who has tried to harm my businesses, shows up on the stats to the point it's stalking. She also visits my Facebook pages and this blog ALL the time. I have put her and her abuse behind me, but she obviously lets me occupy a big part of her brain.
I blocked her on facebook, and I never visit her website. What do I care? I'm able to move on and not care about bad people. I want the shocking moments when I see she's been on this blog, or the Guild page a dozen times in one day, to stop. I want to feel every post I make about my classes, my food & drink line or a review isn't been scanned by her. I knew she held grudges against other people, and has had many ruined business relationships, but she views me as someone in natural perfumery with some recognition and respect, and she wrecked our relationship because I refused to put up with her screaming like a harpie over the phone.. Meh.
How can I ban her IP from here, my websites, and the facebook pages? Any and all help is appreciated.